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Nadesłane przez: jdate dnia 20-09-2021 15:06
I was out last night talking to a group of mature women, when they later told me that one of my friends didn't get the hint that they weren't buying his game; and this got me to thinking. When I game mature women, or talk to anyone in general, I pay close attention to how they're reacting to me. For instance, I can instantly tell when I'm not being aggressive enough, when I'm being boring, or if I'm going overboard; and I quickly make the necessary adjustments in conversation.
Now let's look at most guys that are new to seduction. They take the opposite approach to human interactions. Instead of focusing on the subtle body language and voice tonality of the person(s) that they're interacting with, they focus almost exclusively on what they are saying to their audience. Guys can go years without realizing this crucial mistake that they are making, and some never pick up on it.
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What does all of this mean? This means that they are setting themselves up for failure. If you aren't paying attention to how someone is reacting to your comments, then sooner or later, you're going to lose your audience. And I think this is the fundamental problem with most seduction methods; they focus too much on long, structuralized routines that are several sentences, sometimes paragraphs, long.
This sets students up for failure. Why? Because the student is too busy trying to recall or recite very long, drawn out, sentences or paragraphs, and what this means is that instead of paying attention to how his audience is reacting, the student's attention is completely focused on what he is saying.
And this isn't just limited to guys who use long, drawn out routines; guys new to the game are just as guilty, even if they don't use long routines. However, the proper way to approach human interactions is to place the focus on paying attention to how the receiver of said information is reacting to that information, and to quickly make the necessary adjustments in conversation.
If you want to get better with mature women, then don't focus so much on what you are saying; focus on how mature women are reacting, and adjust accordingly. This is exactly why students need to learn a more improvised freeform of seduction: it frees the mind to pay attention to how others are reacting instead of creating a bottleneck trying to get information out. You can't take in information if all of your efforts are focused on getting information out. Understanding this principle is the key to becoming good with mature women.